Engraved jewellery: Which materials and stones to choose for a personalised gift?
- Merci Maman
- Personalised Jewellery Blog
- 24 Apr 2025
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Choosing a personalised piece of jewellery means offering much more than just an accessory – it’s about conveying emotion, a story, a symbol. To truly capture this intention, every detail matters – the shape, the engraving, but above all, the material and stones it features.
Your choices will influence not only the look and durability of the jewellery, but also its deeper meaning. Some stones, for example, are believed to carry symbolic properties (protection, love, luck…) that can enhance the engraved message.
This guide will help you select the right materials and engraved stones to align with the emotion you wish to share. Because a unique piece deserves unique care.
Choosing the right material for a durable engraved piece
A personalised piece of jewellery is often designed to be worn daily – to withstand time and emotion. That’s why the material must be chosen with care.
At Merci Maman, we select noble, durable materials that are perfect for deep, clean engraving. Here are our top three options:
1. 925 Sterling Silver: timeless elegance
Why we love it: Bright, versatile and long-lasting, 925 sterling silver (92.5% pure silver) offers an excellent surface for precise engraving.
For whom? A universal choice, suitable for all styles and ages.
Care: A quick occasional polish will restore its original shine.
2. Yellow or Rose Gold Plating: softness and radiance
Why we love it: Its golden or rosy finish adds warmth and softness, ideal for a romantic or modern piece.
For whom? Those looking for an elegant piece without investing in solid gold.
Durability: With proper care (avoid abrasive products), it retains its beauty over time.
3. 9ct Recycled Solid Gold: a legacy to engrave (made to order)
Why we love it: A luxurious, eco-conscious material offering exceptional durability and priceless sentimental value.
For whom? For those looking to create a lifelong piece, a symbol of family history or heritage.
Our suggestion:
Discover our Mini Identity personalised bracelet, available in all three finishes and endlessly customisable. A gift as unique as the person who wears it.
At Merci Maman, every engraving tells a story, choose the material that will write yours for eternity.
Stones: an added soul – symbolism for a one-of-a-kind piece
Semi-precious stones offer more than beauty to a personalised piece – they bring emotional depth and meaning. Here are our favourite stones and their meanings to create a gift that’s both beautiful and timeless:
1. Birthstone: a timeless good-luck charm
Each month of the year is linked to a stone believed to bring luck and protection. A perfect way to celebrate a birth, a birthday, or simply to offer a meaningful piece to someone dear.
2. Pink Tourmaline: the stone of love and tenderness
A symbol of affection and gentleness, this delicately coloured stone is perfect for a declaration of love, a couple’s gift or a token of maternal affection.
3. Crystal: protection and clarity for a fresh start
Known for its soothing properties, crystal is linked to intuition and insight. A piece featuring this stone is ideal for someone starting anew, embarking on a project or going through a personal transformation.
Our suggestion:
Treat yourself to our personalised birthstone necklace - a perfect blend of elegance and symbolism for a gift as unique as the person who wears it.
(Looking for a specific stone or tailored advice? Don’t hesitate to get in touch!)
Which material to choose for each occasion?
Every material conveys a different feeling. To choose wisely, think about who you’re giving the jewellery to – and for what event:
1. For a birth: softness and symbolism (rose gold, tree of life)
Opt for a soft-toned piece, such as a rose gold-plated necklace, with delicate engraving and a symbol of connection (tree of life, heart…).
Discover our personalised tree of life pendant necklace, a strong and timeless piece to engrave with your loved ones’ names.
2. For a baptism or communion: simplicity in engraved silver
Choose an elegant, engraved silver piece that’s simple yet meaningful.
3. For a birthday: birthstone or yellow gold
A piece with a birthstone or in yellow gold is ideal for marking a special milestone.
Don’t forget to care for your jewellery to keep it shining over time
To keep your personalised jewellery sparkling, regular care is essential.
Precious metals like silver or gold plating can tarnish over time, especially if worn daily.
To prolong their lifespan, avoid contact with water and chemicals, and store them in a soft pouch.
To bring back their shine, use our jewellery care kit - a must-have for keeping your treasures looking as beautiful as the day you gifted them.
Offer a gift card for a personalised choice
Still unsure about the design, finish or message to engrave? Choose a Merci Maman gift card. It allows your loved ones to select the jewellery that suits them best - while keeping the sentiment of a personalised gift.
Conclusion: give an unforgettable piece of jewellery today
What makes a piece of jewellery unforgettable is its ability to reflect an emotion, a thought, a memory. And it’s the harmony between the engraved message, the material and the chosen stone that gives this creation its true meaning.
Explore our full collection of personalised jewellery and choose a piece that tells your story with elegance and emotion.